I have so many issues with my daughter. She lives out of state. I tried to purchase dresses for her wedding and I had to return them. She won't let me help her at all with the wedding and "wants me only to be an invited guest." We've had issues for the past 15 years and she asked her future mother in law and others to assist. She also does not want me to come up to visit her? I love her, she is all I have and not sure what her issues are?