okay so I am mid 20s and I have a co worker early 20s. couldn't stand her when we first started working together but she grew on me. I am not identified as a lesbian or anything but heard through the grapevine that she thought that I was.
anywho we sort of become unseperable lately at work. everyone knows we're always together in and outside of work. always over one another's apartments. problem is she has a boyfriend and likes another guy. if watching a movie she'll sometimes put her feet on my lap. she cooks for me sometimes :) she calls me baby sometimes, which she usually calls her bf. we sleep in one another's beds when we do spend the night at the other's place. she gets close where we are facing one another and inhaling/exhaling each other's breath. then she'll turn move over to her side then come close again...touch my feet with hers...or my leg. (mind you, we have our 'sides' in each other's beds too) in my head I try to wonder if we are thinking the same fantasies. I have a feeling that if we keep spending the night..something just may happen in the bed. I know I have strong feelings for her but I don't want to jepordize our close bond that we've grown to have. she is totally against homosexuality but her vibes give me other signals. how do I solve this issue???
Are the feelings mutual???
Added 3+ months ago:
I want her really bad and I think that she knows that...
Answers (1)
Well, now that's a though shell too crack, but I don't think it's impossible.
Try using some simple moves like calling her babe (Or whatever comes into mind)
using another persons signals normally shows that you interested in them.
Like on work one of my co-workers started using my signals all the times around me, which then led too my curiosity, and I actually did the kinda fail thing, I asked the person if they were copying me it led too a long "Yes..." and I then asked Why? the answer was kinda Childish in my opinion but it was "Because I really like you" after work we had some discussion back and forth if it was right but at last I agreed too try Dating and it actually was lot of fun. So I can only say be true too you friend, and try talking about it.
Or you could just hope that the person would come too you.
But I would place my Bet on doing it yourself!
The Dude
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