January 28th is mine and my boyfriends 3 year anniversary. I want to surprise him and do something special but i don't know what. We go on dinner/movie dates quite often and we stay home and watch movies/eat in alot as well.where we live(buffalo ny) its the middle of winter so its really too cold to do something outside for long but i want to do something different and romantic that we don't do all the time. He isn't a sports fan so game tickets are out of the question and he doesn't really go to concerts so that's a no too. I'm at a loss here. Any ideas?
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Every relationship needs a bit of fun and unpredictability. When partners live with each other for a while, they often settle down into a routine and even start taking each other for granted. Very often, this signals the beginning of the end of a relationship and eventually the two people find that they no longer have anything new or interesting to offer each other.
Write a love poem for him
Put down your emotions in a romantic poem for your boyfriend. He will be surprised and touched to receive a message that you have composed yourself. Don’t worry if the poem doesn’t rhyme – it should just be romantic and sincere.
Act out his fantasy
If you know what your boyfriend fantasizes about in bed, you could try acting it or just a part of it out. Of course, this holds good only if you are comfortable doing what he desires. Otherwise, read up on unusual but fun ways of making love and go all out to surprise him. Make innovative use of melted chocolate, silk scarves and stuffed cushions, and he won’t know what hit him!
Throw a surprise party
Invite your boyfriend’s best pals, without his knowing, and make arrangements for a party. It would be ideal if you could choose to do this on his birthday, in which case, don’t wish him the whole day and act as though you have forgotten his special day. Otherwise, any other day would do just as well, to surprise him with a party. Make sure that his favourite music is on and the dishes are ones that he loves best. Wait till he reaches the door, then turn out the lights and hide all the guests. As soon as your boyfriend enters, switch on the lights and yell, “Surprise”.
Decide to meet him on a date. But before you do so, visit your hairstylist and go for a radically different hairstyle. Complete the makeover with clothes and accessories that you have never tried before. This is not to say that you need to make a spectacle of yourself, only that you could give your boyfriend a huge surprise, by turning up with a completely new look.