I live with my fiance and work part time. I'm the only one currently working. We have a joint bank account. I told him I don't mind if he gets gas and if he needs anything else to ask first. I don't mind getting him things most of the time. I'm starting to get irritated with him. Last month he went out and made a deal to buy a $200.00 guitar without asking me first. We worked that out. Because I still owe on the guitar and I don't make a lot of money. I told him I was going to be really short this week because i'm paying off the guitar. He won $25.00 at a contest and wanted to buy some cards online. I told him that was fine but asked him to wait till I got paid. I needed to buy some uniforms for the new job i'm starting and he could gets the cards at the same online store. I asked him to wait so I could get free shipping without having to spend extra money. Last night I was really sick and waiting to leave work. While I was waiting for someone to take over my shift. He went out and bought a gift card so he could get his stuff. I'm upset because now I can't afford everything I need for my new job because I now have to come up with extra money to cover shipping cost. Am I wrong for being mad about that?
Whenever I get anything I always give him half or get him something. Am I wrong for being hurt that he never appreciates or returns the favor? I seem to always go without for him. On my birthday we went shopping and his stuff cost more then mine. I couldn't afford everything so I put one of my things back so he could get his stuff. I feel like i'm being to generous,