We hang around the same area and I really like this girl at uni, though I barely know her. In fact, so much that it torments me, the way she treats me. She has mixed feelings of me, sometimes she completes ignores me and likes to stay away and at times, we are in the same room and it was twice when we sat next to each other. I am thinking the next time we're alone, to talk to her and say "Hey, umm.. hello, sorry to bother you, but umm.. I see you hanging around this area a lot and well so do I and I have the funniest of feelings that you might have a problem with me. But do you?"
WOULD THIS BE THR RIGHT THING TO SAY?
AM I MAKING THE RIGHT MOVE BY CONFRONTING HER? (sorry my previous question wasn't working)?
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- 3+ months ago by hirajdeep...
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- girl, love, dating, girls
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go with what feels right play it out in ya head first before makin any actions.think first act next.if she's being all mixed feely about you then maby shes undecided about something or someone else.just be wary about how shes acting around you if she acts annoyed after your first encounter that means buzz off(sorry) if shes kind of iffy and unsure find out more about her so you can atleast have somethin to talk to her about.maby she'll end up being curious about you if you leave her on a cliff hanger she'll be more likely to wonder then start to talk to you more willingly.
well once she sat right next and it was as if she wanted to talk to me or initiate a conversation, but I was lost for words and couldn't think straight and stayed quiet, therefore lost the opportunity to talk to her. :P
she did have that annoyed look on her face though but she decided to sit right next to me.
why?
maby shes annoyed because youre actin weird around her.are you makin funny faces or somethin?or maby shes heard something about you that she doesnt like.im not sure.do you think youre maby doin somethin thats makin her feel that way.i hate to leave you with a bunch of mabys but i dont know...
orrrr could it be the class befo that one thats got her actin that way.
ask her how her day is goin maby she'll tell you an put yo mind at rest.i mean nothin terrible will happen im sure.or maby she has personal probs.
Well, I will do what is necessary to put her mind and mine to rest and that is to say 'sorry'. If it doesn't work out, I know in my heart I didn't mean anything rude to her if she that judgemental. But well yeah... I guess you're right maybe she's mad because the way I acted around her and she didn't like that. I am not the same person the whole time.
Well, I hardly know and we have never spoken before and also she seems a little distant at times, so saying What's up would be awkward, don't you think? what should I say then?