Well Im 18 year old guy and I have been thinking about s*x but the more I think about it I feel that I am not ready. Im going to therapist right now. I can't tell her stuff like this its way to uncomfortable. I dont know what is happening to me I have never open up to no one not even my parent like saying how I feel or about problems I can't even cry in front of people when I really want to. I feel that I am not ready for s*x cause of all this stuff and more. With therapy I finally have opened up recently but I feel like I'm lossing my mind I dont feel like myself I dont know what to do. I I feel less of a man cause I'm still a virgin and I am not ready I feel weak I'm confused I feel weak when I am getting emotional I feel like a man Is not suppose to show emotions. when I opened up to my therapist about my childhood I got emotional I wanted to cry she said its ok but I refused to cry cause it wasnt ok for me I felt like I was showing that I'm weak. I'm not sure what I'm asking am I less of a man idk
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Tonyeb18, there is no race to have sex. To be a virgin at 18 is more normal than you think. When you meet the right young woman, you will know and it will happen. Please, do not hang yourself up so much about being a virgin. It does not make you less of a man. Things like lying and cheating make you less of a man, maybe, but not being a virgin. Please do not torture yourself. It will happen! Good luck!