Am I justified to feel upset by my wife's choice to be seen by a male gynocologist ?

Concerned, no, this is not a thing you should be upset about. A gynecologist appointment is not at all sexual, and the doctors always seemed to me very, disinterested. This is nothing to worry about, I think.

you have the right to be upset and feel jealous.You are a married man and you are the only man who have the right to see and touch her private parts.If you feel hurted by her action,you should tell her to find a female ob-gyn.And also ask her if its ok for her that other females can see and touch Your private parts?Its disguisting and weird that females are consulting male ob-gyns,especially if they have the choise to look for a female doctor.Your wife has no respect for Your feelings and no respect for her woman body.I would never tolerate that my wife consulted a male ob-gyn.if she did,i would divorce her because i would feel that she is cheating me.But i have been married With a woman for nearly 30 years,we have 2 children,and are still in a happy marriage.My wife has the same meaning as me about male ob-gyns during her Whole life and we respect each other feelings.She has never let any male doctor,male nurse or male technisian see or touch any part of her body.And she thinks male ob-gyns are perverted men who choose a job like this.Yes,i am a happy man who has a wife like this With an excellent moral and attitude.My advice to you is that you shall tell Your wife to switch to a female ob-gyn.A man is a man.Never mind if his title is ob-gyn and he is wearing a white coat,still he is a man.And you should be only man that can see and touch the private parts of Your wife.And dont listen to all this brainwashed women out there who regulary go to male ob-gyns exposing their bodies.There are millions of women out there who never will even think of seeing a male ob-gyn because they find it weird and disgusting.Good Luck to you.