I am happily married to an amazing man, he is perfect in, well almost all areas lol. He knows I'm interested in women also, and he is ok with it, as long as he can be involved. I however just need to know if is a fascination or the real deal, I don't want him around my first time. Is it wrong of me to be that way? If I get on a dating site to meet other curious woman does it make me terrible? I think I'm losing my mind... Any advise?
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You are not losing your mind, you want to live as your makeup demands. Thats normal. You are not cheating on anybody, not only is your H ok with it, he wants to get involved.
Of course, there are those that will take the morale high ground and casitgate you for it whilst keeping their own dark, dirty secrets in their closet. Ignore them. We are here to gain experience of life in all its variety, as that leads to wisdom. When one is wise then one may do things differently.
Your husband is a very, very lucky man! As far as I can understand this would be the first experience you would have with a woman. As long as he accepts that you may have intimate relationships with women, I do not thing that he should make a fuss about you wanting to 'test' it in privacy. You are right, any 'first time' has an inherent risk of something going wrong and you would probably not like to be embarassed in any way. He seems an open-minded man, talk to him and clearly explain the reasons that drive your request, men need logical explanations.