Ok,im 14 i lost my virginity when i was 13 I really liked him though,he was 18,now he's 19 my parents made me break it off with him...He was perfect he liked to skateboard,give me compliments and cuddle.Now i've been talkin to older guys on facebook...I Miss Him,he has a girlfriend because I'm jealous i messaged him askin if he would come back although i know he's happy...I dont wanna be selfish though.
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no matter what and even if you love him dearly what you two did while you were 13 was completely illegal and your parents could still sue him for rape of a minor and he would have to register as a sex offender if i were you i would just leave him alone and try someone closer to your age and you are not bad person for losing your virginity at 13 ive kknown people who have lost it younger what makes you a bad person is if you choose to keep having sex with people make sure that you really love the person before you have sex with anyone else (nd their in your proper age group) or else you will be charicterized as a slut best wishes to you whatever you choose
i dont think anybody is a bad person, but people can do bad things. and the things you do, do say something about who you are, but if you have regrets, and you wish you never did it, you can ask Jesus for forgiveness, and if you mean and give your life to Him, He will forgive you. You are His child, He loves you, He made you, and he also made sex, and He meant sex to be inside a marriage. Plus you say you are only 14? you are a child, i would advice you to wait with sex untill you are more adult, and thought more about it, because sex is not meant to be something casual. Hope it helps, He loves you!!!
Girl your not a bad person, you just fallen in love to this guy older than you. The best thing you can do is forget him and start with a new life. There is a lot of men out there it can wait, now all you have to do is study hard finish first your schooling and prove to yourself that you are worthy enough to be love and care by somebody who really really likes you.
Lass I was 14, me and the guy are still friends, I'm almost 19 now and all I can say is to avoid older men, sure when you're 18 shag who ya want but for now that could get you a bad name and him a prison sentence, trust me, if I could I would go back and not sleep with anyone else until I was properly ready I would, just 4 more short years, enjoy hanging out with friends and all the stuff ya do at that age because you will miss it