So far people have often told me to focus on what i like doing the best which is focusing on my education and playing soccer. Even as i focus on these aspects of my life, it's help me stop thinking too often about my issue but hasn't really changed my situation. Eventually i come to realization that i still have this issue and it feels like there is nothing i can do to change it. I work as a software engineer and make lots of money but this money does not make me feel any better about myself. I feel lonely any time i come to my house and cry in my office almost every day. My house is very big and feels empty because it's only me and my pet husky which is jack. I come into realization that there is no one to spend my time with other than jack. My mom thinks am very successful and often asks why i don't have a girl friend. All i can tell her is it doesn't work out for me. I've tried over 8 dating sites and it all failed. Am a normal looking guy and no where close to ugly. Am 6:1 weigh 180 pounds and go to gyms a lot but all of these things i do does not change my situation. My brothers that are no where close to my economic status has got lots of girl friends. I don't even know what it feels like to kiss a girl touch or hug. It's so depressing. My house is so quiet that it scares me sometimes. Don't girls like money or success? Am not ugly at all either. Why don't women give me a chance for them to get to know me deeper? I can't stand seeing girls talk to other guys cause it makes me feel like am not an human being. I have too many guy friends that come over to my house to watch sports. Am tired of seeing guys and tired of talking to guys, i need a woman please? Am not gay either i just need a woman in my life. I thought when i started getting lots of money i would finally stop thinking about this issue but it hasn't helped a slight bit. I need a family, i want a family to fill my house. After trying and trying I've started to loose hope. Is there any hope for me or am i just destined to live my life like this forever? Any suggestions would be really helpful.
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Go to places you wouldn't regularly go, see a girl you might like, take a shot.. I'm not leading you to the "one" but it's a foot in the door. There might be a woman in your life you've admired from far, maybe you should take a chance. You have to keep trying because it's what you want. I hear you, Im a 24 year old female and I know I look good lol but I'm alone in my apartment with a lot of friends in relationships and I feel like they don't see how lucky they are.. But I don't give up.. Someone rights goin to come along.
I believe your right and it's sort of given me positive mind set about the situation. Thank you for the advice
Been doing things and trying to meet women with a positive mind set but i don't know any women to invite to sport parties. I also go out everyday regardless my situation to meet women but they don't seem to be interested in me at all. You can say am used to this and can't really say women are different individually based on my experiences. I've put myself out there more than enough to realize all women are the same when it comes to picking their type of men which am not qualified as. What annoys me the most is do i have to be alone just because i can't be like most guys with bad attitudes?
ty for the response. I will try to work on myself and look for what i might need to change.