About 36 years ago i was 18 and was considering getting a girlfriend. I never really considered it cause i was focused on my education. So i decided to go on a blind dates but it all failed. Am 6:3 and weigh 155 pounds but i don't know why women don't see me as boyfriend or husband material. I was told that "There is someone for everyone, you just got to keep looking". I've been feeding my mind with that quote for the pass 38 years of my life as i was looking all around the world for a mate with no luck. I work for sony development team and make lots of money. My job allows me to explore different parts of the world and i use this to my advantage to meet women all the time. I've been to 22 different countries and i try to meet women but no matter how hard i try women just don't like me at all. My nephew is already married and am still in the same position for the pass 38 years. I can't stand my reality. I remember 32 years ago i use to think being successful was what life is all about and having a relationship would fall in place. I WAS WRONG! Even with all this money my life is beyond miserable. I wish i was born a poor person with a family than be forever alone and rich for the rest of my life. This is too much to digest. I have a big house all by myself. I have a German shepherd that keeps my company but regardless i get scared of my house sometimes cause it's so quiet when my dog is sleeping. I have hobbies i like doing like tennis and going to the gym. I meet women everywhere but they just aren't interested in me. Is it too late for me to have a family? Am i just hopeless cause of my age lacking so much experience? Someone please help me. I would take any advice or suggestions.
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Hmm, tough question. I would suggest online dating. (if you haven't already.) Also, and I hope this doesn't come across rude or harsh, but have a look at your personality. Is your personality attractive to women? Ask women that you are friendly with what you could do to improve your chances. Then try to improve in these areas.
Thank you for the advice.