i have a 6 year relation ship. i love my boyfriend a lot. 2 year ago there was a conversation fight between my father and my boy friend was going on and suddenly my father slapped him. but that was over and now my father has acceped him. but now he always used to hurt me. he always say abusive for my father and it hurts me a lot and when i cry he used to make fun of me . what should i do. i think he is talking revenge from me but at the same time he planned for our future. i am verry confused whether he loves me or not . please hel me i am very tensed and hurt................................ mera boyfiend hameesha make me cry.aur use koi fark bhi nahin padta. wo keheta hai ki tumhare papa mere baare me kuch bhi bolte the to tum sunleti thi ab jab main bol raha hun to tum bhi suno.. main use bahut pyar se samjhaya par wo nahin samajhta. main kya karun please helm me.....aur sirf mujhe hurt karta reheta hai kya wo mujhse badla leraha hai par kabhi kabhi wo itna sweet beahave karta hai ki main apni saari cheezen bhul jati hun . but han he is dominating in our relationship. meri ek bhi baat nahin mani jati.. main aisa kya karun ki meri bhi baat wo mane please suggest me. i want to live happy with him....................................... i want ki wo mujhe pehele jaisa pyar kare.. please helm me
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All honesty i dont feel that he love u i think he is just using u for wat he can get from u. remember that you more valuable than that and that your feelings do matter. and what your parents say play and important role in your relationship as well. find someone dat will love and respect you as a lady and a person and will respect your feelings and your family.
Hurting you physically and emotionally that's mean he doesn't love you anymore. First thing you do is to think for your self. You cannot be happy when you're with him, move on and make time for yourself, love yourself first before you love others. That guy don't have love love and respect to you and to your family specially to your father. It's to late to think of your self.