Last month I saw a girl that I really like.. I cannot stop thinking about her.. but sometimes when I see her I froze I cannot open my mouth and I get butterflies in my stomach.... b4 added her on FB I send her some poems.. I added her on FB ..we talked 2 times there..then she said she is busy always busy with stuff.. while we talked in FB that time.. I promised her some stuff. I baked something for her..give her a flower and some notes.. . then later the same day she said I am way to nice and ty for everything and for the compliments.. I talked to her in real only 2 times.. the last time I talked to her face to face she said... how can I repay u .. u gave me to much I told her I like her.. she just smiled and turn her head.. then she told me that she is busy again ..so I told her I will leave her alone and did but she said no no its ok I will c u around.. when I walked away I looked back and she was looking at me.. week later when she was with a friend I saw her again.. she stared at me totally when se saw me and she ignored her friend when she saw me.. when she said hi,, after a while I wave at her and said hi with a smile.. and her friend looked right away toward when she said hi... and I didnot know what to do ....so 2 days ago.. I wrote her a letter about how I feel and I gaved her a rose..but not to her in person..but the next days when she saw me she turn her head away..so I dont know what to do any suggestion or answer?? coz I really like this girl alot
but the problem is that I can see her everyday she works in the building that I live.. I should wait if she will talk to me or should I talk to her?
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Answers (2)
Dont rush things, that honestly ruins alot. You seem needy and desperate if you push at things. In my honest opinion i say work at the girl slowly, see if you guys have anything in common and have similar interests. You will start to notice signs from a girl if she has feelings for you. How protective they get over you, the way they act around you oppose to other people, or the way she looks at you. Dont do anything further until you notice some signs, it can ruin a friendship or possibly a future relationship. I am 14 years old choose to take advice from me or dont. Just get to know her some more, and good luck to you.
She can totally see that you like her. Give it time. don't rush it. You have been giving her so much stuff. Maybe she just wants to be friends. That is also cool though. If you are friends, you are able to get to know her better. You can hang out with her and just be cool.