I am 13 and in 7th grade. the guys that asked me out is in 9th but he is only 14. i keep hearing bad stories form my friends saying that he has hurt them some how but when ever i see him come around he's always so sweet and kind. when he asked me out i told him that i barley know him and i didn't know if it was such a good idea to go for it because of that. then he said lets play the question game so that we get to know about each other so i instantly said yes. we went through the basic questions and then he asked all what i have done with a guy before and i said nothing because i haven't .. only have i hugged a guy. he said that he felt bad for me and i do to i think that i have at least started to make-out with them already. so i asked him the same question and he said had sex. that shocked me. but it still never changed my mind because i thought it might be good for me too experience some things. but i told him that i would not have sex with him because i don't want to even take the chance to get prego. and he still understood. he said that he would give me as much time as i needed to decide my choose. what should i say?
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Don't do it. That's my honest opinion. You're too young, and nowadays, kids are thinking that they mature faster than the previous generation. They don't. You might think you were mature enough to go out with him (as in, you have the right amount of maturity to go out with him), and you might think that by going to this site, you were mature enough to make any decision. You might think he's very mature for his age, to have had sex at that age. He's not. You getting pregnantwould certainly be a problem, but a bigger problem is STDs (now referred to as STIs). You get one, and you having sex with anyone would become just a fantasy. It'd be painful to have sex or to go to the bathroom. It'd be a living hell for you, and that's something you don't want for the rest of your life.