I went to church with a guy for 5 years.
About 5 years ago i stopped going, and 2 years ago he did too.
I ran into him about a month ago and we were chatting for nearly an hour, we exchanged numbers and have been texting til all hours of the morning, basically 24/7.
Now i am 21 and he is 25, i am attracted to him physically. Is it wrong for me to feel guilty because i want to have sex with him? It's mainly because i knew him when i went to church.
I have had sex with other people so its not my first time - or his....
thoughts?
A guy I like?
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I don't think you should feel guilty for wanting to have sex with him. Just don't do something you will regret like sleeping with him too soon before you know how he feels about you. If you don't care about feelings getting involved and you just want to have your needs met, then go for it! Don't regret it and don't feel guilty! But if you do care about feelings maybe if you see a future with him then be cautious about the impression you make on him. Remember when sex is involved someone always end up getting attached and that person usually gets hurt if the other person was just about the sex :)
I'm straight edge so it's never 'just sex'
I'll definitley wait it out, thanks for your input!