I'm bullied in school, I don't know why. I'm not that like dorky or stupid. I'm pretty except I have a huge nose. But it's as if, well when I'm in school walking through a corridor and the a couple of guys pass us it's always my book they grab and throws on the ground. It is really embaressing, that they do those things in front of my friends. Please answer!
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I had the same problem a few years back. Apparently I stood out a little from the rest and when those guys noticed me once, I was the victim for more than a year. They have probably decided that they wanted to bully someone and that someone was you, there isn't a real explanation.
The best you can do is probably tell as many people (you trust) that you're being bullied and maybe someone does something against it. And don't do it back! That'll only make you as bad as them. Maybe if you find someone you can always walk with between classes they'll stop. I really hope your friends understand!
Keep your head held high and be nice. I guess you just gotta forgive them because sometimes they don't know what they are doing. Be the bigger person, maybe you can ask them nicely why they are treating you differently or you can just be nice and ignore them. Just never stoop to their level, don't feel shitty over this they are not worth your time.
The reason why the bullies bully is because they were bullied previously
Stand up for yourself! When people verbally bully you, don't care about it. Say it right in their faces, "You are not going to bully me." Or something like that, make up your own response if you like. Then just walk off. After a while the bullying should stop. If it continues and you are annoyed, tell somebody. If there is physical bullying, DON'T tolerate it. Go and tell a teacher, counselor, friend, parent, or someone you trust. Usually, don't try to tame physical bullying by yourself, especially if the bullies are very violent. Get help, and defeat the bullies together. While this happens, try to not let the bullies see your weak side. Weak victims=Stronger bullies. Don't let bullies stop you from being happy and confident! Remember to stay positive during it all.
First of all I don't want to sound harsh, but if your "friends" don't stand up for you then I think It is time to find some new ones. I've been bullied too so badly that I got very sick. Please just stand up for yourself I know its tormenting but trust me it feels amazing once you do. If you really can't stand up for yourself then pick up your books, hold your head up high and walk away that will speak loudly to these bullies. The reason they do it is because either they are jealous of you or they have so much pain inside them and they don't know how to express it - Honestly if you want or are willing to try to talk to the bully you never know how much they might need someone just their willing to listen.
The reason why the bullies bully you is because they were bullied previously.. but let me tell you something: DO NOT TELL A TEACHER because if they find out you tattled on them.. they're just gonna hate you more than ever.. and bully you for the rest of your life.
Ask your friends to help you stop bullying. Right now.. my school is doing a bully prevention week so..
ok i have been through this situation so many times. one thing you dont want to do is tell a teacher or prinicpal unless its serious like they are beating you or pulling weapons on you because it will only make things worse on yourself. try to stay closest to the teachers though. Avoid being around them like try to find a different route. if you run in to them then just try your best to defend yourself. If you can ask a adminsistrator or teacher or your just a friend to walk with you so they will most likely avoid you cause they are scared to get caught.if there just saying words just ignore them its not worth getting in trouble over words. if they are physically beating you or pushing you around then let them throw that hit first then defend yourself because most likely you will get into less trouble then you hitting first. If they keep bothering then tell the teacher but tell them to keep it on the low. tell them to watch you but to not make it obvious. I hope this helps:)
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Vengeance often backfires. At any rate, revenge is not really satisfying. One girl, who was beaten up by five youths when she was 16 years old, recalls: “I decided in my heart, ‘I will get even with them.’ So I got some help from my friends and took revenge on two of my attackers.” The result? “I was left with an empty feeling,” she says. And her own conduct worsened afterward. Remember the Bible’s wise words: “Return evil for evil to no one.”—Romans 12:17.
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