I'm bullied in school, I don't know why. I'm not that like dorky or stupid. I'm pretty except I have a huge nose. But it's as if, well when I'm in school walking through a corridor and the a couple of guys pass us it's always my book they grab and throws on the ground. It is really embaressing, that they do those things in front of my friends. Please answer!
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I was bullied in school too. i can honestly tell you that it didn't stop until i stood up for myself and fought back. You would be surprised how quickly most of those bullies will back down once you finally snap and mean it. Their barks are worse than their bites, and they will start looking for an easier target that won't fight back! Good luck, chin up, and take no more crap!
Be the bigger person in this situation ignore them if they call you names and they will soon get bored of it but if they keep grabbing your book and throwing it on the floor you could retaliate by doing the same to them but thats not always the best you could try and avoid them. If you cant tell a teacher/parent/carer.If none of this works simply tell them to go away or get lost and stop being so immatchure! Hope this Helped :) x
Well I'm not an expert on this but I've always been told when someone bullies or picks on you its because they are inscure about themself's so they try to bring other people down with them, best thing to do is just ignore them or since they are guys you could kick them in the nuts that should make them stop, who knows maybe they even have a crush on you and that's how they show it....
The people who are bullying you are just cowards and just bully you so the people around them will think they are tough and strong. Just ignore them for a while and if they continue to do this, tell a teacher or even your parents. Even though I have never met you, I know you aren't ugly or dorky looking. Just remember that everyone is different and being different is good. Hope this helps!
Next time the throw your book on the ground, pick it up and hit them over the head with it as hard as you can. Be sure to tell your friends to be ready to beat him up when you do it. Then when you have to go to the office tell the principal he was bullying you & you finally stood up for yourself.
the same thing happened to me and I had no control over it and I never told anyone because I did not want it to get to the point to were I was going to kill my self. Getting bullyed is not fun and for me it is even harder because I have depression and a lot of stress and that always makes it harder and all I want to do i be happy but i cant and i just feel like crying all the time and almost nothing can make me happy for at lest 1 minute.
sweetie they just want all the attention on them
they think its cool what their doing
if you have classes with them, tape thumbtasks on their chair:)
during lunch when their carrying their trays, slam it into their face!
do something Extreme to get them off your back so they wont pick on you anymore
they'll know how tough you are and you can handle their stupidity by out smarting them. :) have a laugh while you do it:D
hope it works hun! good luck! :)
*** Breaking Free From Bullying
Victims of bullying, particularly the young, face a difficult challenge—that of maintaining balance under pressure. When someone bullies you, he is probably eager to throw you off balance emotionally. He is hoping that you will resort to extremes of anger or show terror. If you fly into a fit of rage or burst into tears and express hurt or fear, the bully is getting what he wants. So he may try to provoke the same reaction again and again.
What can you do? Consider the following suggestions. They are written primarily with the young in mind, but the principles may also apply to adults dealing with bullies.
▪ Keep cool. Don’t give in to rage. The Bible wisely advises: “Let anger alone and leave rage.” (Psalm 37:8) When your temper is out of control, you give the bully power over you, and you are likely to do things you will only regret.—Proverbs 25:28.
▪ Try to put thoughts of revenge out of your mind. Vengeance often backfires. At any rate, revenge is not really satisfying. One girl, who was beaten up by five youths when she was 16 years old, recalls: “I decided in my heart, ‘I will get even with them.’ So I got some help from my friends and took revenge on two of my attackers.” The result? “I was left with an empty feeling,” she says. And her own conduct worsened afterward. Remember the Bible’s wise words: “Return evil for evil to no one.”—Romans 12:17.
▪ When things appear to be getting heated, get away quickly. The Bible says: “Before the quarrel has burst forth, take your leave.” (Proverbs 17:14) In general, try to steer clear of those who tend to bully. Says Proverbs 22:3: “Shrewd is the one that has seen the calamity and proceeds to conceal himself, but the inexperienced have passed along and must suffer the penalty.”
▪ If bullying persists, you may need to speak up for yourself. Choose a moment when you are calm, look the bully in the eye, and speak in a firm, level voice. Tell him that you don’t like what he is doing—that it is not funny and that it hurts. Do not resort to insults or challenges.—Proverbs 15:1.
▪ Talk to a responsible, caring adult about the bullying. Be specific about the problem, and ask for help in handling it. Do the same in your prayers to God, and this can be a wonderful source of help and comfort.—1 Thessalonians 5:17.
▪ Remember that you have value as a person. The bully might want you to think that you don’t matter, that you deserve to be treated badly. But he is not your judge. God is, and he looks for the good in each of us. It is the bully who becomes less worthwhile by resorting to such conduct.
What can you do?
▪ Keep cool. Don’t give in to rage. The Bible wisely advises: “Let anger alone and leave rage.” (Psalm 37:8) When your temper is out of control, you give the bully power over you, and you are likely to do things you will only regret.—Proverbs 25:28.
▪ Try to put thoughts of revenge out of your mind. Vengeance often backfires. At any rate, revenge is not really satisfying.
▪ When things appear to be getting heated, get away quickly. The Bible says: “Before the quarrel has burst forth, take your leave.” (Proverbs 17:14) In general, try to steer clear of those who tend to bully. Says Proverbs 22:3: “Shrewd is the one that has seen the calamity and proceeds to conceal himself, but the inexperienced have passed along and must suffer the penalty.”
▪ If bullying persists, you may need to speak up for yourself. Choose a moment when you are calm, look the bully in the eye, and speak in a firm, level voice. Tell him that you don’t like what he is doing—that it is not funny and that it hurts. Do not resort to insults or challenges.—Proverbs 15:1.
▪ Talk to a responsible, caring adult about the bullying. Be specific about the problem, and ask for help in handling it. Do the same in your prayers to God, and this can be a wonderful source of help and comfort.—1 Thessalonians 5:17.
IMPORTANT!
Pray to Jehovah God to make the stop from bullying you. It really helps. (Romans 10:13)
Also 1 Corinthians 10:13 says that:
"... God is faithful,+ and he will not let YOU be tempted beyond what YOU can bear,+ but along with the temptation he will also make the way out+ in order for YOU to be able to endure it."
▪ Remember that you have value as a person. The bully might want you to think that you don’t matter, that you deserve to be treated badly. But he is not your judge. God is, and he looks for the good in each of us. It is the bully who becomes less worthwhile by resorting to such conduct.
Have faith!
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That suitable i go with that kinda. Good work bro more ideas