I'm moving thousands of miles away from my crush. I have liked him for 5 years now and he knew I liked him a long time ago because he told me but I just denied it like an idiot. But, he doesn't know I still like him. I'm wondering if I should tell him before I leave.My friend knows him and I'm thinking about asking my friend to tell my crush for me. Should I or no? Thanks ( :
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Yes but I feel like you should even if its uncomfortable to talk to him face to face you should enough courage to tell because both of you feel the same way and your friend doesn't know what you are feeling even if your telling her it's kinda like a connection plus if you do tell him you may feel alittle relived.
Option 1: Tell him. It'll lift so much off of your mind and you'll live knowing that your secret's out in the open. This will give him a chance to tell you how he feels about you. Then you can move knowing whether or not he likes you. However, if he likes you back, it'll make it harder for him to see you go knowing that you two could have been something since both of you like each other.
Option 2: Keep it secret. This way, if he likes you, he won't have to deal with seeing the person he likes (that he knows likes him back) go away. He might think you don't like him, so your moving will make it easier for him.
Option 1 assures your peace, but Option 2 assures his. It all depends on the kind of person you are. The question is, do you want his happiness, or yours?
this my story from a guy's perspective, I had got scouted to go to Portugal for a football team and i had to leave in 2 months. As soon as i found out, i told my crush, and she happened to like me too. so we had a good 2 months together and now this is my 4th month in portugal and we're still together actually.