20 years old and still single?

Question

when i'm asked if i have someone special, i would honestly reply that i don't have one then they would all be shocked or something and i always told them i never had one, you know, single since birth. so now i'm 20 years old and never had experience dating or romance. i'm not ugly or anything of some sort, they thought i'm cute and beautiful but i'm beginning to think that it's my looks or my personality / attitude that pushes guys away from me? some close friends, said to me that when they first knew me, i was hard to approach because they think i'm some sort of a bitch which i am certainly not. 

should i be really worried? i mean, i don't want to grow old alone. i'm not desperate to have someone, in fact i'm not aiming for it as of this moment because ii have better things to do. but being labelled single since birth kinda hurts my ego and pride because i feel like nobody is interested in me. what should i do?

Answer

Your condition I would describe as being a narcissist. You want to have everything you want and think about only yourself. 
Currently you have no desire to find a guy and that's exactly the problem. Until you're willing to accept a guy into your life, you will be alone.
Make some time and make friends with a guy just as you would with a girl. Spend time with them and once you feel something more than a friendship, you will have found your man.

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I've known some really attractive girls who had always been single. Men never approach them, almost because they are too attractive. There are some other people who give off a kind of air and aren't approachable. Do you have any good male friends who are willing to be honest with you about how you are coming across to men?

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i am 19(male) and i also have been single since birth.i have been looking for the right one but life doesn't seem to let me have that chance , the way i supress my worries of being single it is talk to someone
if your worried about being single try to do things that will keep your mind busy so you wont think about worries or do what i do, chat to somebody who listens

20 years old and still single?

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