i love 1 boy.., he too love me a lot.... from 3yrs we both love... bt nw my parents came to knw abt my love....... dey r saying, u cnt marry him bcoz of caste............ nw i studing 1st year degree.... he is saying, u cum wit me......... so wt should i do now??????????? plese help me fast.........
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you should obey your parents because the relation with your parents is of 20 or 25 years
(i don't know your age) & affair with boy is of only two months so how can you know that boy only in 3 yrs
always remember your first care taker r your parents & do'nt forget '''ye duniya badi gol hai"
Don't confuse anything, take a call, that u have to marry him, ask him to wait till ur studies complete, then also if ur parents are not accepting. Then go with him. Give sometime atleast 2 to 3 years to change there mind. For arranged marriage itself they will take one year, in ur case caste is also different, so they also have some difficulties, like how to convince ur relation and near ones. Give some time to ur parents, ask ur boy to wait. Time will decide everything. Now studies is important, tomorrow that boy leaves u alone, ur parents won't help and u need to survive. So education is important, that period u give ur parents to change and ask ur boy to wait.
DEAR... tell him to wait till your studies get over... if he loves you he will definitely wait... n yes it is true dat u nid to convince ur parents n if cant den jus giv them time... dey will surely understand n between this u guys will also get more tym to understand each other....n u will complete your studies aswell...:) so right now make ur bf understand dat you nly love him but at d same time parents r also imp. part of ur life... so u nid lil tym....
evry gal will want her parents to bless her on her wedding day.... so i wish evrythng gets well....
take care
If what you are saying about your guy is true and speaking that he loves you, he should understand that you should finish your studies first. Your parents have been your care takers since you were born so you should persuade them that you love this man and they should be happy for you.