Friend A, who has been mistreated, is nice to me but a bit toxic sometimes, and everyone says so too. I never stand up for myself because they already have been through a lot., but everyone says she is toxic and bossy to everyone and I shouldn't be friends with her, although we are really close. Friend B, the one who mistreated Friend A, is really nice to everyone and is very shy but extroverted with friends. She can sometimes ask for too much that is not hers (she always asks for my snacks in my lunch..), but overall she is a good friend. But recently it was confirmed that Friend B had said something bad about Friend A, leaving me to pick a side. Friend A has been trying to manipulate but at the same time gently get everyone on her side, because she says she is the victim and Friend B has made everyone seem like Friend B is the victim and Friend A is the bad guy, which Friend A says is not true. Friend A is acting very grumpy to me these days, and makes me feel bad if I tell her that ganging up on Friend B is a bit dramatic. Both A and B lie a lot, and sometimes I don't know who to trust. What should I do?! Please help!
One of my best friends has been mistreated by my other close friend, but they are nice. What to do?
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- 3+ months ago by JewelHearts
- Topics:
- close, stand, friend, toxic, bits, friends, best friend
Responses (1)
well i was kind of in a situation like this where i said true things about a friend and she said they weren't true so my friends believed her all expect 1 believed me and she said the same thing happened and we tried to kick her out didn't work and i had 1 friend on my side one friend on hers and 1 in the middle but we have problems everyday and she is not a good friend but whatever u should like go with friend B to be honest i wouldn't want a toxic bossy friend that has all bad reviews but friend B if she lied or said something u should figure out what she said about friend A before things get dramatic or if they already are then idk but i've dealt with a lot of things like this me and my friends fight all the time and idk whats best but I would go with friend B
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Thank you for your opinion!! :D