Now... I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask this type of question but, I am a single 15 year old... I've been single for 4 years and I'm tired of being so... Lonley I mean, yeah I have pets and a few friends but love life never works for me, I was really popular for 11 years of my life ect but that all changed once I moved city's from Scarborough (UK) To Middlesbrough's (UK) I just became so depressed and started getting bullied alot. My heart gets broken over and... Over again ... But I can't handle the fact of being alone... I always thought it would be easier but it really isn't. Being shy doesn't help the fact either, I mean don't get me wrong, I can be cheeky but as I said I'm just sick of being lonely, I'd rather wake up with friends to go out with and a girlfriend to see not to myself and a pet on my bed... What kind of life is that :-l someone help me...
Answers (3)
I can relate to your situation, moving town, losing everyone that you knew and knew you as well.
I'm not going to go all Jeremy Kyle on you but I hope you will listen and think about what I say (after that you do whatever you think is best for you!).
You're 15, relax.
In a year or two you will be away from school, believe me when I tell you, you will never see most of those people ever again.
Go to college (avoid 6th form it's got the same people in it as school!), make new friends, meet the ladies!
But for now relax,desperation is something the ladies have a sixth sense for, they don't like it!
You're young, keep playing games, it's cool, you're 15 mate!
In a year or two you will be out in the world, you can go where you like, do what you like and even reinvent yourself. Plan now for your career (I know! *Yawn*, but it's important to have goals, something to aim for, a purpose), concentrate on that and it will take you out of your current situation (and if you want location!).
Middlesborough is a shit-hole, I think we can agree on that, the people there can be OK, but think about leaving there, there are much friendlier places in England.
Good luck.
I'm in almoust same situation here: 15, used to get bullied for no real reason, socialy awkard, always reading books and imagining that they are my life... I can't offer you a really helpfull answer, but here it goes: find a person who can understand you. I just moved into dorm and enrolled in high school in another city. There I found two new friends who really help me a lot. Don't be sad man, there is always solution and you aren't the only one!
I am a first-year at college and despite being relatively new to college i can say that ALOT changes .
For starters there are no bullies .Don't get me wrong there are still less-than-friendly characters about but they don't go around picking on people .
The best part about college is how open people are about who they are for example if someone came out as gay in high school then they would probably get beat up and bullied for it but in college nobody really cares .Every day i see people openly playing with yugioh cards ,having pokemon battles on their ds's ,reading(a rare sight in my high school) and doing other things that you would be bullied for in high school .you wont find it hard to find a group you can hang out with ,be it a bunch of hipsters ,some gamers or bookworms and then it probably won't be hard to find a girlfriend from there .Good luck