Heyy im 13 yrs old and me and my gf have been going out for nearly 7 months and i just wanted to ask some questions. Firstly, im really shy and she is too and we hardly talk to eachother coz we are so shy any ways to help? Secondly, i can put my arm around her shoulder, hug her but i think its time for a kiss but i found out she doesnt like kissing!! All my friends with gfs talk to eachother and are about to kiss or already have and they have been going out for less time then me and my partner!! so there are my questions and please answer them properly (: thnx
13 yrs old how to fix this?
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- 3+ months ago by Im_Too_Go...
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- shy, wanted, relationship, question, month, old
Responses (3)
i think the first you should do is dont be shy when she is around talk to her start by asking her what she like or favorite things to do for you to get to know also shares what interest you maybe through this you can find some things that both of you are interested in the kiss thing why not take it easy kiss always on the cheek so it will came natural for both of you to share kisses and just get on it in her lips before you two be apart or when your going home. Always bear in mind that you should make her feel comfortable with you.
First off congratulations for you to!! If you are both shy and don't talk to each other then the relationship will go down hill but don't worry you can fix this if you over come your fear and just talk to her! Break the silence and ask her questions to get to know her like whats her fave color what kind of pets she has what music she listens to and have a conversation. You could tell her friends that you want to to try to get to know her and ask them what kind of things she likes and then start a conversation with the things she likes to talk about after you guys get more comfortable talking you can tell her that you really really like her and you would love to kiss her some time (or now ) but you want to make sure she's OK with it. I think after you get her to open up to you she will be more comfortable around you and as most girls that age do she will want to kiss you! Hope I was helpful! Good luck!!