Okay, I'm 11 and 4'8.I am obese .I want to lose weight because I love this one girl,but I am way too insecure about my weight.I weigh about 140lbs Does anyone know of anything that I can do to lose weight atleast 40lbs or more without stunning my growth.Please don`t post mean comments saying WO YOUR FAT.Oh this also includes what kind of diet I should go on.