My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years already. But last year I met a girl and we had a relationship for about 5 months, which included sexual contact between us...just lately I broke up with my mistress and told my girlfriend everything..and only after cheating I realized how much I loved/love her..but I don't know if she is ever going to forgive me, she gave me another chance, but didn't forgive me..maybe I should just give up for both of us? because she keeps finding pictures or facts about my mistress and me that frustrate her. I guess she will be in pain anytime she sees something that reminds of my mistress or the fact that I cheated on her...so should I give up, or try and go through it?
Will my girlfriend ever forgive me for cheating? Maybe it's better for us to break up?
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- 3+ months ago by minorthing
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yeah to rebuild trust that is hardbut if u could could turn bk the time u"d never cheat on her,second didnt u think of the consequences of cheating,?!at least now if she really means to u and want her win lost trust,make her ur everything....sing her a song like if i could turn back the time by cher or drive by train,this would be romantic...a poem maybe,make her ur number 1 interest,she will feel that u are back.dude,if u dont beleive that u can win her bk just give up or u will both get hurt,try to get back at least 70% of trust and u will see,actually trust in a couple was never 100%so u need luck,she loves you that is why she gave u a chance,she thinks u are worth it,so dont let her down,make her comfy and never ever cheat on her again coz then she will tell u we are never ever getting bk together dummy!she will dumb u coz that was she supposed to do anyway,and that is my opinion,
man sex is 100%cheating,however u choose ur next step but she decides to forgive or not
As bf/gf!
Both of you have the option of staying!
Or going!
When people cheat!
It means that something is missing in the relationship.
Forgiving?
That is something that is a tough nut to crack!
Because a anyone can forgive!
It's the forgetting and moving on that is the even hard part.
And as long as you have things of the past still with you!
That! Is where your problems will always start!!!
Leave the past!!!!!
And move on!
Sorry to hear this, it's terrible that you felt the need to Cheat in the first place but you realised your mistake and tried to right that wrong. Your girlfriend obviously loves you or she wouldn't have stayed with you. You need to both be true with each other. Ask her if she will in time forgive and forget.. Ask if you can have a future together. You need to talk it all through for her to be able to put it behind her and look to your future. Get rid of everything to do with the mistress and start fresh from there. If she can't do this then you are better off apart as it will just keep coming between you both until one of you hates the other or you both hate or come to resent each other.
but it seems like the tails of this will never leave, you know? like lets say in 4 months we'll be together, but then one of her friends posts a picture of me and the girl I cheated with, then my girlfriend starts crying again and all that stuff...I just want to know what is better for her? and I forgot to say one important part: we've been together for 2 years, but we've been in a distance relationship for a year already...