Why would some who is vibrant, sociable, active and confident turn to the internet to find a partner? I do not mean love over the internet I know that it is only common sense for people who met online to meet face to face after but the very act of leaving the whole world and turn to the internet to find love sound very desperate to me?
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Well, how many new people do you tend to meet on a night out? For me, it's only usually one or two and you have limited information about them and a limited amount of time to find it out.
Let's say a database has a million people and all their compatibility factors and can choose people it thinks you'll be matched with. Why not take advantage of that? I mean, you've still got to meet and go on a date, but why not let a computer weed out the people who are no good for you? If nothing else, it's a time-saver.
I've never used a service like this and I have had that "magic" evening where you meet someone new and click so quickly that everyone around you is commenting on your chemistry and the electricity. Thing is, I've only had it once in my life. What if there are hundreds of women out there I could feel that kind of connection with? Shouldn't I maximise my chances of meeting them?
The reason I've not used a dating site is probably because of the stigma and it still sets off a bit of an alarm bell in my head, like it does with you. Perhaps it's time we moved on from that, though. Apparently 25% of all newly-married couples now meet via the internet. I'm starting to wonder if leaving it to chance really is the right way.
Cuz such people are shy in real life or they are unable to find there love. On internet they doesnt feel shy and also they get to know each other more clearly also people think that they get to love each other by internal feelings not by attraction through external body structure. So according to them love on internet is also tru but in reality people only have problms.. Lol ..
are you serious? I hope not