So, i think I'm depressed, i feel like everyone hates me and i just don't care anymore about anything, i feel like I'm nothing, the only person who seems to actually love and pay attention to me is my boyfriend and best friend, but neither of them know exactly how hurt i feel. At school I'm a topic of discussion all the time, everything they talk about... it's annoying.....they make up so much rumors about me :( it hurts
not to be vain, but i am very pretty and I'm one of the top students in class, I'm quite intelligent............when my few friends actually realize that the rumors bother me they say people just envy me.........idk maybe but i can't take it anymore, because of this i have a really love self confidence, and i would normally turn to my family in times like this but they're the same way, my parents told me already that im a familly embarrassment. they say stuff like that cause i wont lie, i am a bit anit soical at big family gatherings, thats because I'm afraid, i want to be feel accepted and loved but i don't want to get hurt so i tend to put up this wall to protect myself............... idk what to do anymore i just wanna give up ........ :(
What should I do to change my life around and be happy?
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dont give up. life is to short to give up. and im sure everyone cares its just that they are afraid or just dont know how to show how much they love you.i feel like you sometimes and i also feel like giving up. sometimes i wish that my life would just end.but then i think about the people in ym life that show me they care and i think about what things would be for them if i was gone.i like you are very quit and anti social in family gatherings because i feel left out and alone but i know that they love me even though sometimes they say things they dont mean. my advise to you would.dont listen to them.one day they will realize what a great person you are and they will be sorry for treating you the way they did...dont let them affect you. but if you want to talk more right to me dailylondono@yahoo.com and ill be happy to liston to what you have to say.
Ok, why do you even care what they think? If they're not your friends why should you give second glance? For example when a bunch of my "friends" turned on me and made up stuff and i would just laugh, because its kinda funny when you think of it.... that they would waste their time and lives talking about me even though we're not friends. Think of it in a positive way, that they are so jealous of you and care about you so much that they would make up those rumors. And just talk to people you'll be amazed at what happens.
well i go through the same thing you are going through, but i realize that people say all kind of mean stuff just to get under your skin. but its up to you not to allow things like that to get you down.keep your head up and rise above wat people think about or say bout you. remember your worth much more than that and that you are special, and unique.
just be you and keep smiling even when things look bad just keep a smile on your face, and remember that you can make it.
Sweety...... Darling.... First accept yourself the way you are prior to feeling about other.. In this world no one is intrested in other, the winners are those who are self consicious and accept fully themselves in the way they are.....
Hope you will understand the life sooner....
Good Luck
Hi Sweet16
I no you posted this over 3 months ago so you might not read this thread. I just wanted to say 5 years ago I was just like you I droped out of school because I was fed up of alll the wispering and bitching behind my back. I also had problems at home and life really did feel like a constant pain I spent years feeling like this and thought that this was how my life would be. But my life changed so quickly I met my husband at a work placement I met him at 17 at 18 we got married at 20 I had my little boy he is now 1 and so lovely. I also tuck home study courses and achived my degree at the age of 19 and masters at 20 much sooner than if I had gone to collage. SO PLEASE dont give up I have been there and trust me there is always somthing around the courner and some were in another place there is some one who feels just like you do your never alone. Keep thinking to the future and you will be fine we are all destend for grate things and you are no different. I hope this helps I wish someone had told me this when I was young
I'm happy things turned out for you at the end!
I feel the same and don't want to give up, I'm in the process of concidering to return to school but thru a home study course, could you suggest me which one you've gone thru and perhaps give me a few pointers, e.g.: what to look out for or which would be the best ones to concider!!!
Decide what you want.The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts; therefore guard accordingly. Never give up always think that everything happen for a reason. You can learn from those mistakes that you had before. Imagine every day to be the last of a life surrounded with hopes, cares, anger and fear. The hours that come unexpectedly will be much the more grateful.
Never put yourself last.
When you extend a helping hand to one person, be careful not to kick someone else in the teeth.
Always own a pair of old, faded jeans.
Count your blessings every day.
Acknowledge your successes along with your downfalls.
Burn the candle that has been in storage for the last two years.
NEVER EVER give up! keep moving forward. Who cares what other people think? Your YOU. A person. What makes you different from others? Is it because your ugly? Ignore them. They say that whoever that takes risks are STRONG! And you're one of them. Just keep fighting and God will make you have an amazing future! You see,God answers in 3 ways:
He says yes and gives you what you want.
He says no and gives you something BETTER.
He says WAIT and gives YOU the BEST!
You will have a great future,I promise. Of people say you're ugly;you're not. They are just jealous people who can't find a life and want some attention. You're amazing. I bet you're beautiful inside. I look for people who is beautiful in the inside,not the outside.
And I agree,they ARE jealous of you. Because you're beautiful,and intelligent. Who doesn't envy girls like that?
They want to be like you. But they are just doing it the hard way,and in the wrong path. Good luck! :)
Consider what Jesus said about happiness:
(Matthew 5:3) “Happy are those conscious of their spiritual need, since the Kingdom of the heavens belongs to them."
HOW THE PRINCIPLE CONTRIBUTES TO A MEANINGFUL LIFE: Jesus indicated that humans have an innate spiritual need. We long to know the answers to such questions as these: Why are we here? Why is there so much suffering on this earth? Does God really care about us? Is there life after death? We need to know the answers to such questions in order to have a meaningful life. Jesus knew that there is only one reliable source that can answer those questions—God’s Word. In prayer to his Father, Jesus said: “Your word is truth.” (John 17:17)
Here's the thing. Their just some rumors, by a b***t (excuse the language) who is jealous that you're prettier and smarter than them, people have done it to me; but i always had those few true friends, and that's what matters. The whole world isn't against you
My family are always like that, as soon as i catch whiff of any social/family gatherings, I either go to a friends place or just study A LOT!
My parents don't like it and they often call me a lot of things, though I am a massive introvert, and that's never going to change. I've just stopped caring about what other people think about me anymore
I've been through enough, to sort through everything, throw away the s**t (excuse the language) and keep what's good...
If people aren't okay with how you are, well then it's their loss not yours! You have to continue being you and not let all them get to you,
You shouldn't change yourself for other people, you be you, and let other people be themselves... you will always have those few friends who love you for being you and that's all that matters.
Be happy, and don't pressure yourself to meet others expectations
Hy it seems you are a very positive person one should learn many things from you, Keep it up how you really are, Don't let yourself hurt by other people, Stay positive as always and start doing good for everyone as you did and continue the good ones. Everything will stream up in the right way after some time.
What a way to encourage others, Bravo to you, well done !