In about August,
I was telling my best friend about how I didn't eat at lunch everyday and how I felt like crap. He told me to eat so I wouldn't feel sick...he's been reminding me to eat lunch everyday since then and he Has been right. However, in the weeks that have gone by, at least once a week he's brought me something sweet and delicious to pretty much bribe me to eat. Like about the third week after all of that, he brought me a cupcake two days in a row. The following week, he brought me a muffin bigger than my hand! Whatever he brings me seems to get more and more fattening as the weeks go by, and he brings more each week too. A couple weekends after that, he was texting me to eat during the weekend. Well, I did, and that Sunday, I ate so much that I could barely move! It was then that I noticed my once small tummy was a bit bigger and softer! It's been several months, and he's still bringing me food every day! With my kind nature, I've not been able to refuse the food once! Well, plus he brings the tastiest (but most fattening) food, and my appetite has gotten MUCH bigger! Before this whole thing, I was about 115 pounds...Now I'm teetering on the 200 pound mark, at 193 pounds to be precise, and still growing. As much as I'd love to stop this, my appetite is so big now that I can't even control how much I eat anymore. Every time I eat, I become extremely greedy, eat everything I have, and then proceed to ask my friends or family members for anything they're not going to finish. I need to stop this but I can't, so I'll figure that out some other time...But I'm wondering if my best friend is purposefully trying to fatten me up, or if it's just coincidence and he doesn't realize it. What should I do? And please, no stupid answers that are insulting either. If you're going to be mean, don't give me an answer, because I don't want it. This is a legitimate question and issue that I'm having!
I think my best friend is trying to fatten me up! What should I do?
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- 3+ months ago by Savhanna
- Topics:
- fat, friend, best friend, weight gain
Responses (6)
ok, calm down:
1: DAMN that was a lot of reading
2: obviously, try and tell him to stop.
3: only allow one big sweet such as a bug muffin like you said about ONCE A MONTH. may be hard, but it helps.
4: if he's bringing you food tell him to bring healthier but less food.
5: eat a little slower. this helps contain your appetite to make your body think it ate a lot, but without fattening up.
6: reapeat
Hope i helped/ good luck from me
then try this: put healthy food in the unhealthy ones like these:
unhealthy sandwich? slap on some lettuce!
giant muffin? cut into 6 pieces, try to eat 1 a day
brownies? surprise yourself!
Well the thing is, he gives me the food, and I devour it right then and there with him there. :/ I can't like, save it, or make it healthy, because he's right there and expects me to eat all of it, including my lunch that's probably doubled in size since the start if the year when all of this started.
hmm... you've got a bad case of over-eating... how about ASKING him if he expecrs you to finish it? if you make your own lunch, pack less. if your desperate, and ONLY if youre desperate, try this hypnosis technique: eat ONE kind of healthy thing very very often for three weeks: burns fat and shrinks appetite.
I know I have over-eating troubles now. >.< It's so difficult for me to feel full anymore, and I can't seem to even control myself now. I just keep getting fatter! D: Idek if it's worth it to try and lose the weight now! I don't know if I could if I tried, I'd just fatten right back up! *sigh* Still, what should I do about my best friend? That's mostly the question asked here, and I appreciate your support and answers. I think he is trying to make me fat (well if he was he succeeded and maybe now is just trying to make me fatter) so what should I do about the fact that he may be trying to make me fatter?
this may make me sound like an ass, but deal with it. by that i mean DO something. step up and tell him to stop, and dont take 'no' for an aswer. but really, try the hypnosis trick now.
Try not to care. It may sound kind of weird, but I know how stressful it is to focus on what you are eating and how healthy or unhealthy it is. So what if you're getting fatter? You still have your friends and family and is that not what really matters most?
And if you're worried that you, like, won't get married or anything because of your weight, there are plenty of people that go for that kind of thing.
This is sounding really weird to me, and it probably sounds weird to you. But look on the bright side: Your friend must...uh...never mind.
JJNQ3
I think you might have a binge eating disorder. Though I've never met you so I can never say for sure. Now binge eating can mean you have underlying emotional stress causing you to eat a lot but I'm not going to get involved in that since you emphasised your friend is your major problem. Well I've gone through issues with friends like this before and I dragged them out over months, once over 6 and a half years. There's only one solution first consider what makes them worth your time. If you decide you think there worth your time then tell them your problem. It'll probably be a painful experience but it's the only way you'll have a chance of fixing this problem
Enjoy?
Sounds to me like you like food, and he brings you good food. Then you eat it.
He isn't forcing you to eat it, and frankly it sounds like your a bit of a glutton. That isn't a criticism, it's okay you like to eat but it doesn't sound like he's doing anything except spoiling you rotten.
Yes your getting fatter, but well do you really think it's because of him. Sounds like is cause you love food, and your lucky to have a friend wiling to give you lots of goodies.
If your what to diet do so, but ask yourself what kind of person you are. Do you want to diet? Or do you want t eat?
I mean obviously you what to be healthy but that doesn't mean you can't be bigger and it doesn't Mena you can't enjoy food.
I'd say enjoy the food, but just make sure you don't get too big too fast.
Or don't and diet and exercise yourself to lose the weight.... hopefully you'll keep it off.
First of all, thank you for your response, I really appreciate it! And secondly, my appetite has grown far too much, and I don't think I CAN slow down at this point. I straight up Can't refuse food a lot of the time. >.< It's not very fun being as fat as I am.