our relationship went realy good but now i don't understand whats going on.... we are not talkin to each other for a week now he is fully confused abt me.... he says he loves me and he cares abt me also bt he says you deserve a better guy dan me nd nt just stuck to a rude person like me nd i made him understand abt dis lso dat i only love him and i can only be happy with him... i cant imagine my self with ne one else bt he repeatedly says dat i dnt want to hurt you ne more.... n he tilll now has not told me dat he wants to breakup wid me bt we are nt talking to each other i even begged him to come back which i admit was my mistake i sudnt have done.... so now m giving him space n letting him miss me bt its gettin tougher for me nd its killing me now... wat sud i do now.... he so confused abt me dat he cant figure out wheather he wants me in his life or not... i even asked him politely if he is seeing some one bt he says der is nothing like dat n he still loves me bt wat sud i do plz help....:(
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Where I come from, this is just an excuse to break up. It means they have fell out-of-love with you and they are wanting to see other people. Your situation sounds the same. Especially since it's long distance. You should ask him kindly if he wants to split up, just to see what he says. If he does, there's no changing it. And it's best to split up rather than him do something really STUPID behind your back and hurt you really really bad. I know you said you can't imagine yourself with no one else, but as time passes another amazing guy will come along and you'll be happy. Maybe even happier. If it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be. Good Luck.
Where I come from, this is just an excuse to break up. It means they have fell out-of-love with you and they are wanting to see other people. Your situation sounds the same. Especially since it's long distance. You should ask him kindly if he wants to split up, just to see what he says. If he does, there's no changing it. And it's best to split up rather than him do something really STUPID behind your back and hurt you really really bad. I know you said you can't imagine yourself with no one else, but as time passes another amazing guy will come along and you'll be happy. Maybe even happier. If it wasn't meant to be, it wasn't meant to be. Good Luck.
he wants you to be the bad guy and do the breaking up - that way you can't blame him. Long distance is hard on everyone and temptation is every where. Back off and let him come forward if he chooses. In the meantime concentrate on yourself and making yourself happy (without him) - hugs I know it is hard!
yes thanks for replying bt wat sud i do r8 nw.... i love him n i want him back in my life... n i know dis he lso loves me bt due to his personal reason he is upset nd not tokin to me in a proper way... i desperately want him back in my life... he is upset bcz his dad is nt well nd by my constant questions he is iritated now... so nw i m nt tokin to him givin him space bt plz suggest some thing wat sud i do nw.... sud i ask him again abt wat he wants or jus stay quite n gv him a chance to miss me n realise thngs by him self.... i love him a lot n i realy want our relation to work.... yes its true m hurt by his behaviours bt stl i want him back in my life.... i cnt b happy with out him
Give him a break he has a lot on his mind. Now it's time to give him what he needs not take what you want.
and.........YES...you can be happy without him - give yourself a break too and stop obsessing!
Proud of you!
proud for wat?
My dear friend, it's human mind, not automobile engine, u can't repair the prob, even if u find. He might understood that marrying u is impossible thing, due to his personnel prob. But he love's u very much. As somebody said's he wants u to break. This can't rectified in a month or some week. If he text or call, reply or else keep mum. If he need's u he will join with u after solving his personal prob is over or else he will stop himself. U better involve in his personal prob and help him in coming out of it. So that ur relation will get stronger. Watever happen's in ur life, it has to move. Don't struck up anywhere.
what is wrong with you...even if you are being sarcastic.that is not funny as some people would actually take you seriously.