I moved away to NM 1 1/2 ago and then i moved back. my first day at school my "bff" and her friends called me a loner and laughed at me. peer pressure or true feeling? we are like on again off again friends what should i do im always the one that says sorry even when it's not my fault should i get even with her, forgive and forget or give her her like 7,000,000,000,000,000,000 chance
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You need too take a certain level of maturity about it and talk to her. Obviously something has gone on between the two of you or perhaps with her. Try to be her friend and ask her why she is acting this way and flat out tell her that if she keeps treating you badly then you won't be her friend and she will be loosing you forever. If she doesn't care or react then that means that she isn't your friend or at least a good one anymore. Trust me, I have dealt with all types of friends in my life, if she treats you badly and is too willing to make fun of you then go make new friends. Talk to new people. It was hard for me because I am so shy and apologize if I even look at people half of the time but you have to push through so that you are happy and aren't being put down. Like I said, confront her (definitely alone, so you can talk one on one) and ask he why she is acting the way that she is, tell her how you feel and just talk it out but if that doesn't work, you need too find new friends. Personally, I have friends in my old school that I've been gone 3 years from and we are as tight as ever, she may just simply be mad that you never visited or called perhaps, maybe she felt left behind. Talk and listen and if it doesn't work, let go and move on. That's the best advice I can give you.
I had the same issue with the friends I am close too now, the above is what I did, I hope it works out for you.
Try and undo problems what i cant do now E.g falling out over nothing with your mates
like i said, maturity, part of eventually being an adult. another thing is you likely wont keep these friends through college and so on so no worries. if you want a simple fix, 3 strikes and out works fine for teen friends that you dont want to keep. by being a good person ive obtained many friends but just as i am nice i have to make sure they know where i stand. 3 strikes and my foot goes down, you're not my friend cuz you'll do me wrong again... it always sux but sometimes you gota do it
to tell you the truth i don't belive in "bffs" for me that means : b (bad )- f(fake) - f(friends) .
the only person you could really trust is yourself and your friend is just trying to make you feel less , i dont knoe your friend but i been trhow stuff like this you should belive in your self and move on just find neww people that bring you better thinks in life and make you feel yourself :)
exctly!!!